Anal sex - 15 things you should know

• Stretch, always stretch - there's no room for quick penetration during anal play. This is a muscle that is usually always tense. Therefore, as with sport, you should stretch it first and let it get used to the thickness of your cock. There are numerous bedside aids for this, such as an anal plug, which can support you in your endeavours. So don't do the anal quickie but warm up beforehand. As the saying goes: "You don't know what to expect down the rabbit hole."

• "Don't worry", nobody's going to wear out here – as the arse muscle is one of our strongest muscles of all, you don't need to worry that it won't be able to swallow at some point. Whether it's a bottle of cola, a giant dildo or your partner's arm, nothing will wear out as long as it's not permanently stuck inside you
  • Always communicate nicely - talking about arseholes is certainly not exactly the English way, but in this case you should follow our advice. Ask if everything is ok, if the person is ready, if it's uncomfortable or hurts. Asking if it feels hot or expressing this yourself is always well received by the other person. So talk to each other.
  • Start in the riding position - this is the best position for this. The reason for this is that you still have full control over penetration and can look into each other's eyes. Afterwards, you can go as wild as you like.
• "It hurts the first time, but not so much the second time" - this song lyric is somewhat true. If you're having anal sex for the first time, you'll probably feel some pain. So it doesn't necessarily mean that you've done something wrong.

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