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Whoever wants to experience BDSM always runs the risk of meeting strange, bizarre or extreme people. The main dangers here are if you don't know your own limits and those of your "new" partner or even exceed them. These include overstepping personal and physical boundaries, a lack of respect for the BDSM partner, the loss of sexual self-determination or psychological distress. Further dangers arise from the abuse of violence, rape and the conditioning of one's own pleasure pain. In order to avoid these dangers, you should treat each other with care, trust and respect. This applies from the very first time we get to know each other and from this point onwards, boundaries must be respected and those of the other person must always be scrutinised. This is why the sub must always test the dom extensively, as the sub submits to him physically and mentally. Both must work together to reach a level of trust and thereby develop stability.
The Boundaries of BDSM
BDSM is considered dangerous when a BDSM session with a partner seems unacceptable or risky. Safety is paramount, even over the satisfaction of one's own lust. That's why boundaries are essential in SM play and it's important to talk about desires, inclinations and no-goes and to point out dangers and risks.
SET YOUR OWN LIMITS!Each of us has our boundaries. As soon as a stranger, a person we don't know, crosses our boundaries, it makes us feel uncomfortable, which can also irritate us. Especially when it comes to our own sexual boundaries and taboos. Many subs often describe themselves as "taboo subs" just so that they can find the right, potential and dominant partner and please them. Unfortunately, they also tend to overlook their own boundaries.
WHY CONSENT IS SO IMPORTANT IN BDSM!Since personal boundaries are often reached in BDSM and sessions can be unpleasant, dangerous and painful, consent is very important here. Two models in particular are widely discussed. RACK and SSC. Both include and address the issue of consent and demonstrate the individual freedom of choice of each person, whose rights cannot and must not be interfered with
THERE ARE THE FOLLOWING RULES IN BDSM:
#1: Communicate openly and swear unconditional honesty.
#2: Treat each other with trust.
#3: Clarify all shared taboos and boundaries with each other.
#4: Feel each other out with the respective types of play.
#5: Get to know your limits and those of your partner and get a feel for them.
If the topic of BDSM appeals to you and you would like to exchange ideas with more like-minded people, then take a look at our BDSM category under the Dominas, Slave girls, switchers, TS/TV slaves or TS/TV dominas or visit our partner site “BDSM28“, the BDSM community, the fetish portal for lustful dating. Here you will find them.
For all beginners and newcomers in this field, we recommend the site “The BDSM Blog”. This blog is a great guide and informs you about everything to do with BDSM. There is also a BDSM emergency number where you can call in urgent emergencies. Here's the blog!
Fitting to this article we recommend “The sex slave”:
Here are three more very interesting articles for you, from which you can learn even more about the dangers and background of BDSM.
https://www.psymag.de/8597/gefahren-bdsm-interview-bdsm-psyche/
https://www.wunderweib.de/so-gefaehrlich-ist-bdsm-ein-dom-packt-aus-5411.html
