Anal masturbation - how to have anal sex with yourself!

Published on 30.03.2022 13:32

This article is about whether anal sex is only for men, what techniques are used to achieve an anal orgasm and what you should look out for. So let us enlighten you.

Today I'm going to tell you a bit about your anus. The anus is a very intense, erogenous zone that can ignite unimagined pleasure in us humans just by touching it. Some people even get an orgasm from it. However, if you are alone and there is no play partner nearby with whom you can practise this bed sport, then it would be advisable to use a small stick of anal toys or anal plugs. For some techniques, however, the hand is also sufficient.

Question 1: Is anal masturbation only for men?

Of course not! Anyone who has an anus and likes it can satisfy themselves here. But this also means that only those who like it will find it pleasurable and enjoyable, regardless of gender and orientation. The difference is that men have a prostate. This point, also known as the P-spot, is used for anal masturbation and promotes male orgasm when stimulated, which also applies to the sphincter in particular. It can therefore be said that how you stimulate yourself anally to achieve an orgasm depends solely on the technique and the body's stimulation response.

Question 2: What anal techniques are there to satisfy yourself?

Prostate massage: If you have no problems sticking your finger up your arse, then why not give this technique a try? To get started, insert your finger carefully and gently, about 7cm, until you feel a bump-like elevation in the direction of the belly button. This is the prostate, which you gently and loosely circle and press with your fingertips. This movement alone should trigger stimulation in you. Find out what you like and how you like it.

Perineum massage: The perineum is a small connection between the anal region and the base of the penis. Stimulating it or squeezing it hard just before you cum can give you another little kick. Stroke yourself gently and gradually apply more and more pressure to the area. This makes it easy to stimulate the prostate from the outside.

Sphincter massage: If you are already a little aroused and your guide hand is on your best part, then try to stimulate your sphincter a little with the other hand. The best way to do this is to use some lubricant or your saliva, slowly feel your way towards your anus and gently circle it. As soon as you realise that your sphincter is slowly getting used to you, start to slowly insert your finger into your anus with a little pressure and a slight pulsation.

Anal toys: Using these sex toys requires a little patience and also some preparatory work. None of them can be inserted quickly. Therefore, always use the right anal lubricant with the toy. This will also prevent internal injuries. You should make sure that the toys are slightly curved to stimulate your P-spot well. If you're into it, you can also take a vibrating toy to bed with you for even more fun and intense sensations.

Women can get in the mood with special double vibrators. These are for the vagina and for the anus.

Question 3: What should I pay attention to during anal masturbation, what are the rules here?

Rule1: Make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are cut short.

Rule2: Start slowly and use lubricant.

Rule3: Be relaxed and loosen your muscles, anus and sphincter. Involve all genital organs.

Rule 4: Get yourself in the mood beforehand and play around a little.

So: If you want even more intense sensations during sex, use your back door. Whether you're playing solo or with your partner, anal satisfaction will give you a high. Try it out!


Do you prefer it when someone else plays with you and your anus? If so, we have the right prostate masseuses and masseuses for you. Let them pamper your arse.


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