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For hundreds of years, men have been buying sex. Brothel prostitution on our continent can be traced back to the 12th century.Yet it is still not accepted by society today. It is considered immoral and the sex workers are ostracised.
Although there are now many countries where it is legal or tolerated to 'prostitute', prostitutes are socially marginalised. Even if they pay taxes in this country, have health insurance and have to obtain a permit before they can work, it doesn't change anything. They are rejected by the general public.
Less Discrimination / Equality
Finding a place to live and insuring yourself as a prostitute is not easy, being recognised by your own family in this activity is almost impossible. That is why many have to hide their work. Sex workers want more fairness and social recognition.
“Please stop the debates to ban prostitution for our own protection or to restrict it in such a way as in the constantly discussed Nordic Model, where the use of sex services is punishable. Finally recognise our profession. Stop marginalising us and ensure justice. It cannot be that we pay taxes on the one hand, but are not put on an equal footing with other gainfully employed people."
Stop criminal prejudice
“Stop generalising and pointing fingers at us and the sex trade and portraying it to the outside world as if violence and exploitation are the order of the day in our profession. This is not the case! ” Finally make a clear distinction between criminal human trafficking and the self-responsible, self-determined activity in prostitution. Also differentiate clearly between pimps and clients. Sometimes it seems as if hypocritical public objectors only want to make a name for themselves with this.
More respect
“We would like to see more appreciation from you, dear customers. Many of you are welcome guests who appear decent and polite and behave in the same way from start to finish. Just as you have expectations of us, which we try to fulfil, we also have wishes of you. Mutual respect is very important to us!“
Talk openly and friendly about your wishes
“This helps to clarify in advance what we are willing to do and what not. It is important to accept a "no", because each of us has defined our own clear limits. No price negotiations! You want closeness, tenderness, security, intimacy and one or the other extra. We are mostly willing to fulfil these longings. So don't start haggling over the price. A good service has its price.
Do not expect more than you have paid
The booked time and the agreed service, both you should get. Provided you do not misbehave. A longer time together and the fulfilment of further wishes are not included. Please do not forget that.
Cleanliness
“Body care is especially important to us. If you haven't had a chance to shower before, you can do so with us before we get down to business. Clean, washed hands, trimmed fingernails, oral hygiene and a well-groomed body, especially a clean intimate area, are what we offer you and what we expect from you.“
What we don't like
“No one likes to be asked to come to the door when they are drunk or under the influence of drugs, not even us. Come to us sober and you are welcome.“
Absolute no-go
- asking for sexual intercourse without protection.
- Pulling off the condom at home.
- Insulting words
- Cruelty & violence
- Stalking
